During this crazy time we spend here on Earth we tend to make connections to many different people. Those I have met and let into my life have been quite a varied group of eccentrics scattered with dousche bags and morons. Some have been worth every second invested in them and our mutual bond. Filling each others life with a light or tranquility with just the sheer presence of that individual on a day to day basis. There are people who elicit joy. Those who inspire. There are people who make you want to strive to better yourself, because in them you see parts of the person you want to be. They help you change your consciousness and your view of yourself. These are the good/ positive people that you should hold onto. They are the ones, whom even in your darkest hour, will see the light inside your soul and be able to see that soul in your eyes past the pain. Through thick and thin they will be there holding a banner and cheering you on. Even if at times they merely watch as you transform piece by piece into the person you knew was waiting inside.
There is no way to show the amount of proper gratitude towards these people. What they do for you, your soul and your life is immeasurable. All one can really do is share the same enthusiasm about them. Be their support, their light..... the cheerleader in their life.
All of those people who have abandoned you in your greatest times of need, when the pure inky darkness was so thick your could not even breathe through it..... they are not needed in your life. You didn't matter enough for them to waste their time on, you should not waste your time on them. I also believe that when a friendship ends, no matter how difficult the letting go is, it is never appropriate to speak negatively about the 'lost person' in the future. Once you are out of someones life, it changes. Sometime directly because of the loss but usually due to time and growth. So the person you are sending negative energy to isn't even the same person you knew. So please be careful with your words and with your thoughts. They mold the world around you and can cause a ripple effect. And it all comes back to you.
